Intimacy coaching is for courageous people ready to improve the quality of relationships in their life — including the one with themself.

I offer a private, embodied space to soften shame, reconnect with desire, and live more fully in your body whether you're navigating burnout, long-term partnership, or simply a deep longing for more.

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Existing clients can book a session here.

This work might be for you if…

You don't need a specific "problem" to benefit. Many clients simply feeling disconnected — from their body, their partner, or their sense of aliveness.

✓ You want to feel more at home in your body ✓ You're curious about pleasure - sexual or otherwise ✓ You long to trust yourself and your desires ✓ You feel disconnected from your needs or inner voice ✓ You're moving through burnout, overwhelm, or transition ✓ You want to deepen intimacy or expand pleasure. ✓ You're navigating midlife changes — body, desire, identity ✓ You're in or you’re seeking a long-term partnership and want to connect

I specialize in working with couples, folks navigating midlife changes, parents, caregivers, queer & kink-identified folks.

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What we work on together

Sessions are tailored to you. We move between body, mind, and heart — following what feels most alive. Themes I often explore with clients:

  • Deprogramming Shame

  • Accessing desire & pleasure-worthiness

  • Long-term partnership dynamics

  • Mismatched libidos‍ ‍

  • Boundaries & communication

  • Burnout & self-care

  • Midlife metamorphosis

  • Better sex

  • Embodiment & somatics

What clients say…

"Working with Sarah changed my relationship to my body in ways I didn't think were possible at this stage of my life."

— Mary, Individual client


“Sarah is mesmerizing with a strong yet gentle presence. It allowed me to really 100% absorb everything she was sharing with us.”

— Mike S, Couples client

“I feel more open and aware of changes I would like to make in my life. I was tense in ways I hadn’t realized and I’ve returned to myself through this work ready to make positive change.

— Robin, Individual client

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Pricing & packages

All sessions are private, conducted online. Packages must be used within 4 months of your first session.

Single 60 Min Individual session — $160 · 75 min couples — $195 ‍ ‍

3-session pack · 3 60-min individual sessions — $450 · 75 min couples — $550 ‍ ‍

5-session pack MOST POPULAR ‍· 5 60 min individual sessions — $700 · 75 min couples — $850

Equity pricing available. I hold space in my practice for anyone experiencing financial hardship, caregiving demands, or disability. Individual sessions from $90 · couples from $120. Email sarah@sarahtomtom.com to book.

Ready to begin?

Start with a free 20-minute call — no commitment, just a chance to meet and see if this feels right for you.

Book a Free 20 Min Intro Session